Recent Comments

1. Sign Up Online To Become An Organ Donor - 31 Aug 2006

   This was my first one done, I did it the day before actually joining the Generous community. (So sure was I that I was going to get in!)

   It’s such an easy one to do. You sign up and when I finally shuffle off this mortal coil my internal bits and bobs will go on to benefit other people. Hurrah!

   My friends and family already know my wishes and they’re happy for me to do that.

2. Become A Blood Donor - 31 Aug 2006

   I so wish I could do this, but I can’t.

   As a gay man who’s had sex with another man I’m barred from ever giving blood.

   I then have two choices. 1) Lie about my sexuality. (I’ve done that for too long so not really a great thing to do)

   or 2) Not give blood.

   So instead of having to lie about my sexuality in a bid to give blood and rather than just ignoring the whole issue I’m going to encourage the people I work with, worship with and socialise with to give blood.

   So if you’re doing this action can you also ask them to raise awareness of the issue and call for the ban to be lifted.

   The ban on gay men is making the problem of donor shortage worse.

   Gay and bisexual men are currently barred from donating blood because of the risk of HIV transmission, even if they practise safer sex and only have sex with a long term partner.

   Despite widespread calls for change, the National Blood Service has yet to alter its position, citing rising HIV/AIDS rates amongst the gay community as an example of why men who have sex with men should be stopped from donating.

   This position is based on outdated images of gay men and fails to take into account the rising HIV rates amongst heterosexual people.

   The National Blood Service policy perpetuates the myth of HIV and AIDS as ‘gay diseases’

   The UK’s Blood Service Policy is at complete odds with the guidelines that are outlined by the United Nations, that serves to tackle this type of discrimination, and removes this antiquated perception about the gay community.